Sometimes we should lie a little, just as the song says, “die a little”. It would be for a good cause, the one of not burdening our dear ones with our own burden. I’m thinking here of Italo Calvino’s concept of lightness in literature, in art in general, maybe even in daily life, in his Six Memos for the Next Millennium (which is this one). Avoiding the perceptive world to turn into stone, we would keep our own stones in our pockets instead of throwing them into the lake of life. But what is this that is scrubbing against my leg as I walk, some drops of blood already soaking the pocket? How large can pockets be made? How do you cure the invisible wounds of friction? Sometimes these stones must be cast hopefully not at another stone bearer, but into that lake, with gentleness, as the gentle ripples will subsequently form and fade. Not much of a mess. A splash, a frog will leap and dive, startled. A fish will proudly present his bump on the head for the delight of the entire shoal of non-tetrapod chordates. What else can we do with these stones of pocket philosophy?
But that boulder up there near the cliff’s edge is highly tempting. With a bit of help and some basic engineering, we might dry off this lake down here in one go.


